Right. Suppose you were only attracted to feet and that was ruining your life. I could give you an attraction to cunts, then you would be better off.
And when I train you to like one thing, it is always going to take away from your liking of something else. So if you are trained to be aroused by your wife, you will have less arousal for other women. That "negative training" isn't that strong, but it's there.
So, if your sexual attraction is severely off-kilter, I can probably fix that. The "off-kilter" things won't completely go away, and that shouldn't be our goal. I will just decrease them and add some normal things, so you have a sexual-attraction system that works better for you.
What about attractions that are good for me?
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